I know that my approach is completely the opposite of yours (which, in my imagination, amounts to nothing less than intensely dramatic over-analysis) but can you blame me if I only want to remember happy things?
did you just call my thought process "intensely dramatic over analysis"?
I think so. ;) Of course, I only said that that’s what it was “in my imagination.”
that was belittling and dismissive. and completely unnecessary.
...if you were insulted by what I wrote you last, then you didn’t read it using my tone of voice. And I know you know my tone of voice well enough to read with it.
i understood your "tone". perfectly actually. it was patronizing. and maybe you didnt mean it that way, but if i tell you there's a problem dont tell me im just being dramatic. its the same thing as ignoring me.
I wasn’t being patronizing. Like I would ever do that to someone I cared about. Now I’M angry.